The ‘Love Language’ Of Each Shape

Knowing how your partner would like to be loved, can be a game changer.

Often we tend to love others, the way we would like to be loved isn’t it? But each shape has a slightly different ‘love language’, and understanding their love language, and letting them know yours, can be a great way to help you both feel loved and appreciated.

So here is some quick insight into how each shape would like to be loved.

1. THE BOX

Boxes would usually like to spend quality time with you and have your attention when you are with them. They feel loved if you are present and focused on them when you are together. This means putting down the cell phone, making eye contact, and actively listening to them.

Boxes are usually introverts and they cherish deeper one-on-one connections. They will also immensely value the small little things you do for them. These kinds of thoughtful gestures means a lot to a BOX. They will never forget when you go out of your way to take care of their needs and will be forever loyal to that. Though they may not express it in words, they will show it through their actions! ☺

2. THE TRIANGLE

They love to live life king-size!! Triangles will love it when you praise them, applaud their achievements, and treat them as someone special. They like to be in the limelight and love it when you allow them their prominence without competing with them.

They need you to be well-dressed, conscious of your appearance and be respectful of them (so don’t try to pull depreciating jokes on them, especially in public). They would also love for you to have high energy and allow them to take charge, be it at home, pleasure or leisure. Indulge them and don’t take them personally.

3. THE RECTANGLE

If you want to love a Rectangle, be flexible to changes – they can be moody and unpredictable. Rectangles would love to receive appreciation, words of encouragement, lots of hugs, laughter, support.

They need to know that you believe in them and that they are wonderful just the way they are. They would love to spend time with you, have meaningful conversations and share exclusive fun times together. They value the feeling of warmth and comfort that comes with physical touch, especially when they are low.

4. THE CIRCLE

Circles are creatures of LOVE! They cherish the expression of affection through spoken words, praise, or appreciation. They really enjoy kind words and encouragement. They simply love it when you write love notes and cute text messages.

You can make this person’s day by complimenting them or pointing out what they do well. They are also big huggers. Circles also really value when you will stand up for them and their needs because they usually don’t stand up for their own.

THE SQUIGGLE

Squiggles usually respond really well to surprises and gifts! The more unique the gift, the more they love it! They also enjoy physical affection, laughter, humour, adventure and spontaneity.

Squiggles also love travel. Taking them on trips filled with amazing experiences can be the biggest show of love! Also, Squiggles love to talk want to discuss everything and create plans for the future, so they love to be heard! Squiggles also wish to have the freedom to do what they want and when you give them that space they love you for it.

Understanding how shapes like to be loved, is very useful to deepen our connection with our loved ones. Let’s talk the shape love language and create loving bridges of trust and intimacy!

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