How To Show Me Love – The Box
Be patient and don’t rush me
Tell me and show me that I am valued and respected
Dont argue with me in public
Be on time!
Talk to me without getting overly emotional
Don’t surprise me
Don’t expect me to compromise on my basic values
Give me time to think before making decisions
Be clean and orderly with your personal belongings
Don’t expect me to be a social butterfly!
How To Show Me Love – The Triangle
Be a good listener. I like to tell you what I think
Don’t take my anger personally
Be clear and confident
Don’t argue or compete with me
Let’s face problems together instead of taking opposing positions
Have high energy and be open to possibilities
Don’t play the victim!
Let’s share big dreams
Share your fondness and admiration for me
When you present a problem, have all your facts straight
How To Show Me Love – The Rectangle
Be patient with my confusion and unpredictability
Give me plenty of compliments. They mean a lot to me
Cheer me up a little when I am feeling low
Help me learn to love and value myself
Respect my need to find meaning and direction in life
Be patient with my indecisiveness
Don’t be critical of me, even of my obvious mistakes
Don’t judge me for my anxiety
Reassure me that everything is okay between us
When I doubt myself, remind me of my past accomplishments
Try not to overreact to my overreaction!
How To Show Me Love – The Circle
Be present to me emotionally
Tell me often that you love me
Be honest. I hate being manipulated
Tell me that you appreciate me. Be specific
Don’t get aggressive with me during conflicts
Listen to me with an open heart, when I am down
Be gentle if you decide to point out my flaws
Take an interest in my problems
Readily admit your mistakes
Tell me I’m attractive and that you are glad to be with me
Be as sensitive as possible
How To Show Me Love – The Squiggle
Give me freedom. Don’t try to fence me in
Engage with me in stimulating conversations and laughter
Listen to my ideas and appreciate my vision
Don’t try to change my style. Accept me the way I am
Don’t tell me what to do
Join me in my fun activities and adventures when you can
Be excited. Show energy and enthusiasm
Be responsible for yourself. I dislike clingy or needy people
Don’t take me personally during my periods of withdrawal
Avoid building rigid expectations of how things should be
Respect my varied interests and abilities
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